plz advise me

[hana]

assalam alikum wrwb
i have been waiting for my call from medical college ..ok now i gave two tests ...one for the government colleges nthe other is the army medical college ...now the thing s i really wanted to get admission in the army med.college ...they selected me for BDS (dentistry) however i want to do MBBS ,so we asked them for an exchange of seat ,they said inshallah they'll be drop outs from MBBS since many students prefer to go to government colleges (the government colleges selection list is also to be placed inshallah on 2nd november)they gave us the time till 9 november ,i was like if i got a seat in MBBS in AMC then i won't go to the government college ..otherwise inshallah i'll go to government college(i also cleared the test for government college) now the real problem is with ppl i dunno what they get by making me feel bad abt AMC ,some ppl don't like army thats y they r against it ...i'm not being a show off (may ALLAH keep me safe) but its difficult to get admission in AMC ..maybe thats y some ppl talk nonsense abt it they just say don't go there go to government ,never they give a reason for their such suggestion .. i don't know y they do it to me ...kyun kartay hein dil kharaab :( ...now i'm scared if i'm doing the right thing by getting into AMC ...i soo much wanted to go here ,n personally i think many ppl do (who apparently seem against it ) ,i prayed so much did istikhaara alot ..never got any dream but once which was a positive sign ...but u know ppl can make u have second thoughts ...n now i am scared ..plz advice me ...i don't know if any of u understood me or not ...but plz help me ..pray for me that i get whats better for me ...plz advice ..Ya Allah u know n i dont know n i have a weak vulnearable heart that gets easily influenced by ppls thoughts ..make it firm :(

[Akhi in Islam]

Asalaam alaikum Wa Rahmatullahi Wa Baraqatuhu,

Im suprised not even one single person gave this sister some naseeyah after such a long time, even when the thread was entitled 'plz advise me', shame upon all you who read this and no-one replied, may Allah (swt) forgive us, ameen. Lets not forget the rights we have over one another, one of them is giving sincere advise!!!

Im new to this forum, and i know it may not be relevant now, but sister my advice to you is to put ur trust in Allah (swt), and keep sincere in your istikhara and accept whatever Allah (swt) has willed for you, may Allah (swt) grant u the best in this life and the hereafter, ameen.

Wa Alaikum Asalaam Wa Rahmatullahi Wa Baraqatuhu.

[IbnMardhiyah]

Perhaps some gave advice to her in private.

[hana]

assalam alikum wa rehmatullahi wa barakatuhu
jazakumullah khairan for ur replies ,i was thinking to delete this post since i felt quite embarassed ,i thought no one understood ...but ..i cudn't find the delete button :p anywayz alhamdulillah One Who has never left me alone helped me here also ...i got admission in my fav. college ,everything is settled now ,just scared of one thing now ( the ragging seniors do to the new cadets...im a medical cadet now in army medical college :) ....) but for that also i have tawakkal ala ALLAH ,
n as for u br. ibn mardiyah ...err no one gave advice ...pple shud be a bit more caring towards strangers also ,i have also noticed mostly ppl here talk to them who they know quite well
anywayz jazakallah for ur concern ma3salaam

[hana]

http://www.jaihoon.com/egoptics/neverfedup.htm

[trupeace57]

sorry sister for not advising you, are you in the sisters' section? I apologise but reading about school just does my head in so I didn't think I'd be much of a help to you...

[caramel]

I couldn't comprehend your post especially with the excessive use of short hand writing and bad grammer.
My apologies.

[-Umm_Abdullah-]

forgive me inshAllaah sis but i couldnt reply as i didnt really understand your dilemma to begin with

[Abul Abbas Al-Janoobi]

I couldn't comprehend your post especially with the excessive use of short hand writing and bad grammer.
My apologies.

*grammar

( the ragging seniors do to the new cadets...im a medical cadet now in army medical college ....)

Are you joining the american army, or do you live over seas?

[Umm Hidaayah]

Erm...I should have asked, what army would this be Hana?

[Helper]

pakistani

[hana]

yup pakistani army ...but u guys shudn't hate me coz most probably i won't be joining it i'm just studying there ...its up to u whether u want to join it or not

[abu_ibrahim]

Pakistan government are from the tawaagheet.

[Helper]

^^^that is irrelevant

Hana, join the army med school and when youre done stab them in the back and go to the taliban... and whatever you do... DON'T fall in love and get married to an army man.

Yasir

[zalzalah_butt_saab]

The Prophet Muhammad soll Allahu 'alayhi wa sal-lam taught us to say du-aa al istikhaarah, which can be found at the following page:

http://web.archive.org/web/20031215112812/isaahmad.info/istikhaarah.htm

Once you have made the duaa, you try to do the thing you have asked Allah guidance about.

If Allah knows it to be good for you, you will find that you do that thing, until something better comes along. If Allah knows that matter to be bad for you, you will find that you don't do that thing, and allah gives you something better in place of it.

What happens as a result of you making istikhaarah for everything in life, is that you ride gently through life, from one good experience to another, and in my experience of twelve years being a Muslim, things just get better and better.

Wa-s salaam

Abdul Majeed
London, UK.

zalzalah_butt_saab at hotmail dot com

[Catalyst]

^^^that is irrelevant

Hana, join the army med school and when youre done stab them in the back and go to the taliban... and whatever you do... DON'T fall in love and get married to an army man.

Yasir

:D